I think if you write back to her and let her know that you don't hold hard feelings anymore, but when you said you didn't want to talk anymore you meant permanently, and asked her to please respect that you don't want any more contact, period, and would not be replying to her again yourself, that would work. My guess is that she's thinking it's one of those situations, and that when you said you didn't want to have contact with her anymore, it was because of her behavior during that time, not necessarily forever. I think most people end up trying to reach out again if the falling out wasn't horrific and they really valued knowing the person beforehand. It often happens that when people have a falling out, emotions are running really high in the moment, but later on, people cool down and reconnect. (Assuming that the emails are normal, emotionally balanced, and pretty short.) I don't think 4 emails over 2 years is the kind of stalker situation where the only thing that will keep you safe is no contact. Should I continue leaving them unanswered, or should I send a message just saying to leave me alone? posted by anonymous to Human Relations (25 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favoriteĪlas, I guess I will have to break the unanimity here. I feel like I was very clear when I cut ties. It usually includes some sort of commentary about what happened, or about how she's changed, and so forth. In the time since, I've met a wonderful woman, we have moved in together, and my life is just generally in a different place.Įvery six months, I get a message essentially asking for me to reconnect and continue chatting online as friends, that sort of thing. It was overboard and after asking her to stop, I eventually had to tell her it was over - I didn't want to have contact with her anymore. Well, it was, but immediately afterwards she got very jealous/angry very quickly about anything I would tell her about. A precondition of this happening was that we both understood it was no-strings-attached fun. Mostly text-chat, very occasionally voice.Ībout two years ago we were in the same city at the same time, and hooked up. We lived on opposite sides of the country (east coast/west coast), and would chat and flirt online. I had a longtime online friendship with a girl.
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